I (female,20) tend to obsess over someone I like, fantasizing, dreaming about them, etc. but once I get into the relationship I lose feelings drastically wuick after getting into the relationship. Usually the relationships ends due to me starting to obsess or like someone else and I end the relationship to purse the other individual I have feelings for and it’s a endless cycle. This only occured recently after I got out of a 4 year relationship, I don’t know why I do this but it’s so strange I can’t keep a relationship for the life of me no matter how strong I belive my feelings are for the person it always goes away even if I don’t want them to. But what contradicts this is I was completely fine in my 4 year relationship but ever since him and I broke up all relationships I’ve attempted to be in all ended like this. Does anyone have any advice how I can fix this or work on it?
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Do you have friends you regularly spend time with?