I (F29) and my bf (M30) have been together for 2 years and a half years. How can I get my bf to be the one to initiate sex? I can tell he wants too, he’ll even say he wants to, but he does nothing about it.
Tl;DR- In the 1st year of our relationship, we both put in effort when we wanted to be intimate or have sex. It has slowed down so much. We hardly ever have sex. The only time we do is when I make the moves to do so. He will say he is turned on or wants to have sex but does nothing about it. He is willing to when I say I want to. We’ve had conversations about this, I have told him how I want him to go for it and take charge. But he doesn’t put in effort. Any advice on how to spice things up and get him to take charge?
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Perhaps try taking a break from initiating and see if he steps up to the plate?
If he doesn’t want to initiate, you can’t make him