The man is usually in control and directs the woman by shifting her into different positions. During the hair pulling, spanking, mouth covering and pinning down of hands, what can the woman do to help make it better for the man? I really enjoy it, but feel helpless at the same time.

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  1. Basically the same thing. Being aggressive from the bottom or when you can’t physically move them, verbally be aggressive. Tell them what to do, how to do it, etc

  2. Enthusiasm!!!

    Make noise, moan, encourage him. It’s like taking spurs to a horse. All the better a ride

  3. That kind if depends on the person…

    Being a bit bratty gives your partner a reason to be rough. Manhandling and slapping your partner who just lays there and does nothing is more akin to some niche CNC play.

    Or you can go with his flow and grind yourself against him and just generally be enthusiastic. I think it doesn’t have to be a “what actions can I do?” but rather a “Whats my attitude?”

    And in the end I would say: “If the guy makes the girl “take it” just take it and enjoy that feeling. I think you can talk about it with your partner and/or just try out what you like best. You can of course also switch it up from time to time; no need to act in one arcetype.

  4. Relax, let go, shut your brain off, and let your primal side do whatever it wants to do

  6. I love it when she fights back just a little or starts calling me names or goading me on! 😉

  8. I just get into cock drunk mode and say all the filthy things that are in my mind.

    But you said he likes proper. So I guess say all the G rated thoughts in your mind lol.

  9. If she is on top, she controls the pace. I have ride my husband a lot of times. It is really energy consuming

  10. In my previous experience, nothing 😂just lay there and let daddy do what he wants

  11. I use kegals and tighten on him to make it harder to pull out or i push and make it harder for him to push back in. Has the added benefit of making me cum harder and him as well

  12. Grab his arms like you are holding on for dear life. I picture it with your fingers sort of spread apart so it’s more of a animalistic grab than proper with all fingers together.

    Wrap one or both legs around his waist–like you need him so badly that you don’t want him to leave. I usually do just one leg because it still allows his movement to be strong enough back and forth but gives him that sense of “don’t leave me”

  13. Moaning, eye contact, grabbing and scratching at him if your hands are free. If you talk about it head of time resisting him can be pretty hot. Dirty talk is usually good, tell him how good it feels, how big he is, anything for a ego boost haha, guys can be self conscious and have a lot pressure to perform well in bed so it’s nice to let them know they are doing well.

    And maybe you’re doing exactly what he wants, which is literally to just lay there and take it.

  14. Thrust back into him when he thrusts into you. It feels great for both parties and it causes friction 10/10

  15. Get an arm behind your back when in all fours so he can get a hold of it.

    Put his hand behind your neck when you’ re doing oral.

    One time my ex said to me ” Who do you think you’re getting merciful with?”

  16. has he said he wants you to do anything differently? if not, why would you change what you’re doing?

  17. This is going to make me sound like a piece of shit but keep in mind this is ONLY a fetish thing, I am no misogynist.

    But god fucking damn as a dom, there’s literally nothing better than a look of helplessness in a woman’s eyes. For just a little while I feel utterly powerful it’s incredible.

  18. tell him how you feel.

    be as open and honest as you can.

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    if you want to take control, then ask him.

  19. You enjoying it and feeling helpless at the same time is kind of the entire point.

    Otherwise, enthusiasm and communication (of whatever kind makes sense situationally) are always appreciated.

  20. Put your hand around his throat either when he’s on top, or you are… stare into him
    As you do it. Talk to him while you do it… it can be very liberating to feel that in control.

  21. My hubs often says “I love the way you fuck back” when he’s pinning me down. Talking dirty is also a fave. Giving just enough resistance so he has to try, but not too hard is hot.

  22. She was on top and we were going hard and I said, “Slow down or I’m gonna cum.” She just rode me harder and started talking dirty, egging me on, and she practically ended up on the ceiling. Dirty talk and kegals and giving as good as you’re getting is where it’s at.

  23. i turn kinda feral haha, i moan alot and i tense down there so it like squeezes and i move around alot and try and put some work into it and a just grab him and dig my nails onto him hahaha

  24. I offer my nipples to bite down on. Let myself be pinned down and give audible feedback of encouragement.

  25. Moan. Scream. A lot. Move your body and fuck together. Use your hands, choke him, slap him. Or just hold on to something. Or you can tie your hands. Make him feel that you want it

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