I read frequently that women aren’t always able to achieve orgasm through fingering themselves but can still enjoy it however when I do it I don’t really get anything from it?
I can enjoy and orgasm with using my hands or a vibe on my clit but when it comes to fingering myself it doesn’t feel like anything really. Is this normal or is there any techniques I could be trying? I’m also wondering if my fingers aren’t long enough or something
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Use something bigger
You’ll find that our anatomy is more interesting than you’d expect, but also more complicated.
https://www.anatomyofpleasure.org/dashboard
Different people seem to respond to different sexual stimulation. But you can generally learn.
It’s ok if you don’t. Some people absolutely love it and some people feel nothing. Focus on what feels good instead of feeling like you’re missing out.
Use your middle or pointer fingers and make like a ‘come hither’ no pun intended- motion, it stimulates the g spot. It is also a different angle if someone else is doing this to you as opposed to you fingering yourself. Not all women have the same responses, so no shame if it’s just not your vibe.
I don’t get off fingering myself.
I do, however, get off from my boyfriend doing it.
You don’t know how to maneuver your finger towards your pleasure. Fingering with long finger nails is not advisable, and don’t finger yourself without lube or not enough moisture. because if you do, you’re just scratching yourself.
Note that your using Vibrator. Your sensitivity around your clit is at different level because it’s used on the vibration from your vibrator. fingering does nothing to you because of your sensitivity level of arousal. You only finger yourself if you want lubrication or cervical mucus to make yourself wet along with massaging your clit.
Nah, I could never really get it to be pleasurable either. Love it when someone else does it, I just can’t get the right angle myself