Emasculated men, how did you become a man again?

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1. Looking down at my wang and shrugging.

2. I realized I was heavily groomed and manipulated out of my path of manhood by the women in my life via smothering and genuine love and care. It messed me up and twisted my way of thinking greatly. They stripped me of any chance of fortitude and understanding challenges so now I’m learning them very late in my life and it’s tearing me apart as a grown adult because I’m constantly facing the humiliating weight of my incompetence and irresponsibility…My resent is unfathomable and yet fighting to be withheld because they did their best to raise me yet shunned every man that saw the growing problem and made it absurdly difficult for me to mingle with guys. I only got good at it when I started playing football and picked up a trade as a travel technician… but now I’m seeing that I don’t even know how to talk to others or be myself.

3. There’s probably a lot of ways to go about this but this is just mine.

   I think that men need to stop doing “masculinity calculus”.

   If I throw a ball at you, you know how to catch the ball. You don’t know how you know. You just call it reflex but your mind instantly does a calculation.

   If I put a spear in your hand and say “stab the shit out of this bag”, you get the same feeling men have gotten for 200k years. You feel it from inside you and if you’re observant you realize there’s something there, it comes from somewhere.

   So conditioning is a mental thing, when the minds influence becomes stronger than the bodies. It’s top down, whereas the bodies language is bottom up. You have to close your eyes and find that wisdom and how to act, how to do what’s right for you.

   So much of that includes behavior, diet, training your body. That’s the core of what a man is, what’s in your genetic code.

   Then you see from there the way you conduct yourself with others changes naturally. You have more animal grace. You have more confidence and make people comfortable. You provide the masculine traits you know you want to deep down because you’ve listened to yourself.

   It’s a bottom up approach, not top down.

   My main advice is always the simplest. Diet, Gym, some sort of combat sport like kickboxing or BJJ.

   I think if young men all did some sort of combat sport at a young age they wouldn’t be as insecure about conflict and their own limits and boundaries, they would quarrel less among eachother and cooperate better with people they dislike for the sake of mutual improvement.

   I think the least masculine thing you can do is try to undercut another man to make yourself look better.

4. Kevin samuels

5. Get a job in construction. That’ll make a man out of ya quick

6. You need a therapist

7. A time traveling sequel, yeah baby

8. Get your doctor to perform an adidictomy.

9. Real men don’t have feelings therefore cannot feel emasculated. If you’ve ever felt emasculated: you’re not a real man.

   Simple logic

   (and /s)

10. Huh? Crap load of looney stuff on reddit today…

11. Reading about war strategy. Listening to orthodox chants. Embrace caveman primal instinct. Ooga Booga, bang chest.

12. By becoming single again