Would you make advances on someone in a relationship, why or why not?

21 comments

1. define ‘make advances’

2. No, because they’re in a relationship

3. I never do if im aware they are in a relationship

4. fuck no they’re dating someone

5. Why would I waste my time?

6. A person willing to cheat is automatically unattractive to me.

7. No because i wouldn’t want someone doing that to my partner. Pretty scummy thing to do.

8. NO, it is a violation of the bro code…

   Also, if they will cheat with you, they will also cheat on you…

9. No. Easy way to get beat up or falsely accused of something.

10. No.

    I met a girl that I was attracted to, and felt huge chemistry with but never pursued because she was engaged…or so I thought. Several months later I learned that the ring on her finger was her grandmother’s. Apparently she wore it for sentimental reasons, but also to ward off all the men who hit on her. Men who made advances despite the ring were never considered.

    She’s my GF now.

11. Cheating is for losers and like sure I’m a loser but I’m a loser for good reasons

12. Yes, if my feelings for her were strong enough.

13. Depends if it’s not a good fit I like to play plug n play where you plug n play to figure out which one the right puzzle piece like my puzzle would ever be full 🌝

14. Absolutely not, because that would be gross and really fucked up.

15. Nah. Either you are wasting your time and making her uncomfortable cause she’s a good person. Or if you aren’t wasting your time, then that means she’s a shitty person that you’re better off without. Either way it’s lose lose.

16. Is it a good or bad relationship?

    Are they ethically non monogamous?

17. No.

    Because it’s “someone in a relationship”.

    EDIT

    Yeesh…these questions…ya know there’s easier ways to get some quick karma, right?

18. No. It’s a dick move.

19. No.

    If she cheats on him she will cheat on me too.

20. Ew, no. If they hit on me even while knowing they’re in a relationship the answer is still no.

21. No. Because it’s wrong. And I wouldn’t want it reversed on me.