How many women have you asked out in your life?

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1. 1001

2. 0 yet. Will report back

3. One, and one rejected me

4. 10 attempts, 10 dates. 8 second dates, 7 homers, 1 long relationship, 0 kids.

   Like yoda said, “do or do not, there is no try.”

5. 3, one was my gf of 2 years, one rejected me, one married me

6. 0… self knowledge

7. Does tinder count as asking? If so, y’all got bigger numbers or rejections than you think.

8. I can’t remember

   Probably hundreds

   And I have had dated some, banged with some, rejected by some 😅 Just the usual

9. One in 2003, one in 2017. They both rejected me.

10. 0 all three

11. 1. She accepted but it didn’t work out

12. Two. I friendzoned one and married the other

13. I’ve lost count

14. 20 something?

    About 7 said yes to a date. 3 said yes to a second date.

15. i kept a list! but i forgot many to put on (after being married and waifu wanted me to unfriend everyone i had on fb lul). 16 ONS, 12 FWB/booty calls, 9 gfs.

    … 29 i asked out so 9 asked me out?

    tinder/fast dating didn’t exist when i was dating, we only had myspace, facebook, plenty of fish, eharmony. i pretty much hit 2-5 bars every fri/sat, talked to ladies after college classes, approached at parties, in community, etc for a few years and tried to strike up a conversation with any lady that was looking.

    LOTS of rejection but if i was rejected 3+ times in a night, i often had at least 1 phone number to hang on to?

16. 1.0.1

17. Around 15, 3, 12

18. One. Both glad and sad about the fact it was a successful attempt.

19. At least 7 as those are the ones I can at least remember, of those 7 three said yes

20. One, she rejected

21. When I was 17 – 1 girl. Failure.

    When I was 21 – 1 girl. Failure.

    When I was 25 – 1 girl. Short term relationship

    When I was 35 – 1 girl. Longer term relationship.

    When I was 38 – 1 girl. Married.

    So 5 girls.

22. 0 and that’s how that will stay

23. Zero. Btw I’m 25 with average build

24. At least a few hundred. Only one said yes. I married her out of desperation. Now I’ve got a miserable marriage and two kids to show for it. I am headed for a divorce and am just starting to accept I will die alone.

25. Thousands probably, and most of them. It’s a numbers game, and I tend to go for the best.

    Even top top players and men who look like giga chad get rejected more than not.

26. Zero

27. Negative 3, first one we had a 1.5+ years relationship. Number two was rejected by me since I was in no head space to be in a relationship. Number 3 I am currently with and loving all the time I get with her.

    It is odd that all the girls have asked me out.

28. Probably like 7. A few guys too. Dated a few of the girls and none of the guys. Most of the time I was asked I was in a relationship so I had to reject like 4

29. A few, as in not many.

    Only ever got rejected once and that was by a girl who I knew didn’t like me, I don’t know why I asked her out!

    I dated everyone else though, slept with a few of them, let some of them fizzle out after the first date a couple went “long term”.

30. Enough.

31. 19-one girl- dated for a year

    22- one girl not only rejected me but laughed in my face

    27- one girl, ended up engaged, broke it off after I caught her cheating

    36- one girl-dated for 2 years, broke off when her kid asked me to move in

    so 4 total

32. I cannot count how many women I have asked out. I don’t remember all of them.

    It’s definitely the minority that says “yes.” I don’t remember how many women I’ve asked out and been on dates with, but that number is still much smaller than the number I asked out and didn’t go on dates with.

33. 0

34. Seven. Two of them rejected me, five relationships, and one marriage.

35. 11 i can recall. But last one was over 18 years ago.

36. 5, 3 Rejects, 2 Short-Terms… hopefully, I have a long-term relationship in the future, but I haven’t really met anyone I really like in that kind of way these days.
    So, we’ll see…

37. Four. All said “yes”. One date ended up in talking about exes, another one was a complete disaster. Had chemistry with third girl, but we ended up as friends.
    And the forth one is my partner over a year.

38. One. And we’ve been dating happily since. Just passed one year a few months ago 😀

39. 3 and two of those rejected me. One I’ve been on one date with, so let’s where that goes.

40. I “ask out” or otherwise flirt with, or make my intentions known to a high number of women.

    I’d estimate:
    40% politely say no in some form on the spot
    30% don’t text back the next day
    15% we just “talk” no date
    15% date(s)