How is it friendship if he never reaches out to chat or check in or support?
What value does me texting and asking how he is bring to his life when he has plenty of friends, and now a girlfriend?
I thought I’d be who he wants to be with when he was ready to be with someone.
I had imagined he’d move on from me, but I imagined we’d talk about our past when we ultimately ended things.
Instead, just like with everyone else, I had to get closure myself and move on without knowing how he ever felt and without being able to authentically express my feelings.
A disappointing but inevitable ending which has left me feeling more optimistic than I have in years.
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>What value does me texting and asking how he is bring to his life when he has plenty of friends, and now a girlfriend?
Does he seem appreciative when u do? Seems u should let him go n not reach out anymore.
This is the second “n” in the “Dennis system” I think
Find a real man
Clearly he doesn’t want you in his life. I wonder if he gave clues in prior months, which somehow you missed.
Sorry for your loss. Time to move on.
✂️ time to cut yourself out of the picture.