So I’m (M33) dating a girl (F28) for several months now, and things are still pretty early for us. for the last couple of months, I’m suspecting something is odd with her with the occasional cut-off in contact (not messages for a couple of days, try not to tell me her home address…), I’m just telling myself that because she is busy with work and also family issues that kept her from actively contact with me.
And I have just recently knew some information about her past relationship (it’s bad & abusive) and the man is still trying to contact her even though she said no many times. I think she trying to find a new relationship but still has feeling for the guy.
So what should I do now? just take things easy for her to overcome this and open up to me ( I don’t know how long and I don’t want to wait for too long), or come forward to her with this information that I knew (with an apology first as the way I got this information is not good), or maybe talk to her, openly suggest that I suspect something is wrong and as her to open it up to me?