I (20f) have been in a year long relationship with a guy at my college (20m), but I’m still deathly afraid of being cheated on. I was cheated on in my past relationships when I was much younger, but I’ve been going to therapy since then and trying to control those self-destructive thoughts. I guess I’m just writing this to get it all out and to see if anyone else has these same thoughts, and how they deal with them.