I’m a 22 year old bloke, and my question is quite simply as the title describes!
I’m a busy person in real life with little to no measurable sexual experience save for some misbegotten adventures with a red confetti cannon, what amounts to a one night stand in an alleyway and a few drunken kisses at a club.
Save for that, my ‘exploration’ is restricted to porn (visual/captioned mostly) and some online flirtation, dirty talk and the like.
Any avenues and/or advice would be massively appreciated!
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I’m biased as its my line of work, but check out cam models! Its more personal than porn imo, and it can be helpful to explore with other people and browse around, see what piques your interest, etc.
I would also look into different types of toys – there’s something for everyone! If there’s a particular type of porn you frequent, try finding a toy that could give you the feeling youre seeing on screen. For example, I like clit-focused oral, so I have sucking toys and tongue-shaped toys and things like that.
But also, don’t feel pressured to figure it all out right away. You have your entire life to enjoy and explore and express your sexuality, so take it slow and focus on having fun whether you’re solo or partnered or w/e!