I have had a hard time dealing with rejection for a while.. it definitely comes from childhood rejection of constantly needing to prove that I am enough and worth it to my parents.. but how do I accept the reality in dating, if a man is not that into me as I am and just move on without it affecting me? When a man rejects me, I automatically feel the need to prove that I am worth it and will end up making a fool out of myself and basically pushing men completely away..
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Could be the self doubt of being worthy of love? Perhaps work on your inner happiness and healing process of past traumas. Once you’re content with yourself, then is a good time to open your heart to a potential relationship but keeping in mind to not just settle for anyone.
When a woman gives off a desperate vibe, it makes it harder for her to connect with men as they don’t usually want to deal with someone emotional and if they feel smothered by her in the initial stages.
Make sure you take up a hobby or 2 so that you’re keeping yourself busy and not relying on a man to fill any voids (as he’s going to want space without being questioned).