Hi, I F (18) and my partner M (18) we are in talking stage for more than 4 months. Lately I began to send nude pics to him for a week now and I send those since he asked for it plenty of times and I do willingly take pics of them and send it only for him. My only concern is after I started sending nude pics he began to ask for more and I do trust him with those pictures and i’m not afraid of them getting leaked since I avoid showing my face in the pics but I do find behavioral changes after it. He began to talk less and less. He always tackles about having sexual activity with me (that’s all he mostly says when we spend time together). He is persistent in wanting to see my nudes. I feel like he is unsatisfied with my pics since he kept on suggesting that I should show more. He do thank me when I send some but I am worried that he find me unattractive?? Since I am skinny girl with no big boobs and bum. I am scared of what he thinks of me since most of the time we only talk on screen and its not like I can feel what he feel on screen. He do says he loves me but I can’t shake of the feeling that he just loves me because of some sexual attraction. And lately with his persistence of wanting more, I feel somewhat uncomfy and shame that I can’t show more and I’m too afraid to show it. He do says he gets turned on when I send my nudes tho’.
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I’m sure he just wants a variety of pictures to look at. That said, anything that you send by phone, email, whatever is online forever. Keep that in mind when sending these. There’s no guarantee that things will always be good between you and your boyfriend and there’s nothing to stop him from sharing these after a messy break up.
Been in the same kind of situation, I’d suggest you to tell him how you feel before his loves turns into just lust