Preface:
Yes, I know the average is 5.5
Yes, I know that size generally doesn’t matter as much as guys think it does
Problem:
I was watching a tiktok with Drew afualo talking about how successful tess holiday was. Then she started talking about men whose body shammed her, saying, “Just say you can’t make it past the cheeks.”
It got me thinking if I need a larger penis to please a plus-size woman. I am a virgin, so I’m not experienced with sex but it would be a lot of help for feedback. Even if you say, “Tell me you’ve never touched woman without saying you’ve never touched a woman.” That would let me know I’m wrong
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It def helps to have more length in this situation.
I mean, the answer is you talk to the woman, and then find positions that suit you both. Believe it or not, she does actually want your penis to go inside her vagina.
Also, don’t put too much power in anecdotal evidence. As human beings, we have a mental heuristic where we assume that the vividness of an anecdote is equivalent to its probability. This is why everyone’s scared of being eaten by sharks even though that only has like a 1-in-2-**billion** chance of happening to you. This thing you saw on TikTok may stick in your mind, but that doesn’t mean it’s something you actually have to be worried about.
I think there are some positions where it’s easy for extra flesh to get in the way and some positions where it doesn’t matter at all. You probably won’t be having sex standing up, and spoons may be hard, but missionary and her on top and doggy should all be totally fine.
There will be certain positions where if you aren’t well endowed it’ll be very difficult depending on how large your partner is. Doggystyle and its variants are all out but cowgirl and missionaries and their variations work great
I’m not plus size but definitely have some extra around the middle from having babies years ago. My last boyfriend was below average but we still managed. Missionary, cowgirl, doggie all worked great. Spooning was harder but still doable. I just had to be careful not to move too much or he’s slip out in some positions.
I don’t know why this is such a common question. There are many positions that make this possible. Open legs or delicately spread cheeks and there you are.
I’ve never had an issue having sex as a plus sized woman. I wouldn’t worry about it
Doggie and missionary will be just fine. Side by side is a little harder but can be done.
It’s more about finding positions that work for you both than about dick size. Like pronebone and spooning are definitely gonna be off the table for you and her, but they’d be off the table for dudes with longer dicks too because no one has a dick that is a foot long and prehensile, yanno? Anything that keeps her legs spread real wide is gonna be your best bet.
It all works the spoon her from the back it’ll work