I am a 24 year old male with a body count of 8. One of those were a long-term relationship where I’d describe the sex as incredibly solid. I made her cum at least twice everytime we had sex and gave her head as well as used my hands often as well.
Although since the end of the relationship I haven’t been able to be good in bed with other people. With three girls I literally came inadvertently the moment I put my dick in. It was incredibly embarrassing and I tried really hard for it not to happen. I get nervous and then I just melt. It didn’t happen with the other 5 girls. It’s not that I was overaroused, it’s that I was nervous.
Gents, how do you overcome this?
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I mean, stop being nervous? What’s causing these nerves?
Foreplay. Real foreplay, not just non-penetrative sex. It’s for everyone involved, not just one partner. Relax. Slow it all down and start deep, open breathing with each other. If you’re that nervous let foreplay help you overcome it. Kiss and cuddle. Talk dirty or talk about what you want to or plan to do with them. Exchange patient massages. If you’re nervous, address it before you start intercourse.
I have your solution. Get yourself off before engaging in PIV or have her do something. Don’t go into the situation with a loaded gun.