My 23M girlfriend 22F loves being pounded when we fuck but it makes me cum fast any advice?

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1. Could use a toy on her instead 🤷🏻‍♀️

2. Are you using condoms? Using a condom, or using a thicker one could help.

3. I wonder about those numbing products from companies like Roman

4. Control your breathing.

5. Try cocaine or speed

6. Start doing male Kegels thank me later and control your breathing.

7. You are young so you probably need about 5 minutes break time until you can go for round 2 or 3. Continue with the dickening. And you should last longer with each additional round. She may stimulate you orally until you regain an erection.

8. Numbing cream homie. Good stuff. Don’t stress you’ll still get yours and enjoy doing so, it’ll just take a lil longer.

9. Just be in the moment to build that connection even more. Practice pelvic floor strengthening exercises, edging might be able to help as well during the day but don’t use 🌽, go for round 2 and 3 if necessary, enjoy it friend you’ll make great memories together.

10. Kegels are important for men too. I had the same issue and started squeezing my kegel muscle while sitting at my desk each day. Now I can easily back off from the edge even while pounding like I’m angry at the kitty.

    Also, you’ll eventually start blasting cumshots like 10 feet.

11. Bro does your gf know about the “milf” you’re hooking up with this weekend?

12. suck in air before you cum or jack off before sex

13. Try slowing the tempo of the thrusts while maintaining the speed/force.

14. Seriously though.. does your girl know about your weekend escapades and if so make sure you’re using a condom

15. Use a toy on her.

16. Diluted anbasol on your head. It will numb you out. I would experiment on your self before hand so you know how strong you want it to be. (Too strong and you won’t cum AT ALL!)

17. Rub one out before hand

18. You may want to look into desensitizing cream. You can also learn to last longer by taking your focus away from your sexual pleasure.

19. masturbate like an hour beforehand

20. I’m starting to suspect this is some sort of karma farmer – because what the fuck is that post history.

21. Cock ring

22. Some lubricants have a desensitization agent.

23. Pull out when you feel ur near cumming and use fingers. Then when youre ready go back in. Trust me it’s amazing!

24. Condoms are definitely worth a try. Even just as an experiment. It definitely helps the ability to really go to poundtown without blowing it right away. It just dampens the sensation and makes it much easier to edge and be a fuck machine. When you’re really pounding I doubt she can tell the different that much anyway. It’s worth a try.

    But… condoms aside, I’ve had the best luck with a combination of breathing and psychological detachment. Concentrate on controlling your breathing and taking deep controlled breaths through your nose. That helps an immense amount.

    As for the psychological detachment: what you do is just engage in a mechanical process. When you’re having sex with someone and really enjoying it you’re thinking about how hot the situation is and focusing on how to make it feel good to you. There’s a way to step back from it and just do the mechanical motion you need to do to give her sensation and almost not think of it as sexual. It also can help to clench your cock muscles while you do it.

25. Use a cockring, you will feel less and stay hard even when you cum

26. Practice makes perfect.

27. Desensitizer? Communicate with her. She may be cool with you finishing fast.

28. I would jerk off before

29. Rub one out earlier in the day or the night before.

30. Anyone else suspicious of this one’s truthfulness?

31. Maybe go slower. Just bc she wants it hard and fast doesn’t mean you have to. It would probably drive her crazy then when you do it. Should be that much better.

32. Masturbate an hour before sex.. you can last little longer ..don’t make it as a habit but trying a few times doesn’t hurt you much