Went on first date, the second date didnt have happen she already making me into her friends instead because she is two hour away, she says she have long distance relationship in the past and it doesnt work out too well. Well we been talking as friend and we talked for 1 hour the other week, then this week i called she picked up and i ask her do you have tim to talk, she says she is eating, calls me back later.. She never did, i dont think she taking me seriously. Whatever, is she interested or busy ?
tl;tr is she still interested or should i move on, is she worth it? this girl has dencent look, and is a pharmacist
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She’s clearly not interested
If you don’t feel that there’s good chemistry, and you’re doubting that you like talking to her, then stop.
She made it clear that she’s not looking for a relationship with you, so either you enjoy her friendship or not. Don’t feel like you have to endure a cold treatment because of some magical adventure afterwards.
There will be other people with whom you’ll have better chemistry
She rejected you. She has no interest in long distance and I suggest you reevaluating long distance as well. 2 hours is a lot to commit to on a regular basis.
She’s not interested. I think most people would consider long distance relationships if they see potential, but she simply doesn’t with you. I assume there’s no chemistry. I wouldn’t recommend chasing her, at all. If you want to give it another chance, try to get a casual meetup again somehow, and not say it is a date, and this time you really have to step up the flirting. Do NOT talk as friends. Flirting is a skill however, and is the difference between creepy or a friend and romantic interest. Look back at what happened on your last dates and find out why it wasn’t working. I’m fairly certain it is because you talked to her as friends given you said she’s trying to put you in the friend zone. If you don’t change that and fix it, going on another date won’t change anything.