We’ve been together for 6 months now and im yet to make her cum which is really making me feel bad. Basically she never came from touching herself and can only cum in the shower with the handle. Is there any way we can make her cum? Do u guys have any tips, maybe some toys etc…?

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  2. Having sex in the shower is one solution but I’m sure you thought of that.

    What she can do is incorporate other forms of stimulation into her solo sex routine. She can get herself 95% of the way there with the shower head and then switch to her fingers or a vibrator. It might ruin the orgasm at first, but this approach works. It can take a few months, so patience is important.

  3. Sounds like she needs clitotal stimulation, which is very common. Try any vibrating clitoral toy during sex or there are also cock rings with vibrating parts that can be used during sex. Or try positions where her clit rubs on you, I prefer being on top.

  4. Invest in a vibrator.

    Also, browsing vibrator choice together online is fun foreplay 🙂

  5. She might need to lay off the vibrations and learn how to orgasm from a different touch. You can become too used to masterbating one way and then become unable to orgasm any other way

  6. I once rented at a place that had a detachable shower head.. to this day it’s still one of my favorite ways to get off. But with any vibrator / pressure stimulation it’s common for women to become desensitized.

    You could play around with some dom role play and restrict her from using the shower head / vibrators and give it some time (week or 2 minimum ) for her sensitivity to come back.

    As a woman myself, the more penetration I can get before sex (toys / eating out) the more likely my partner is to make me cum. Cervical orgasms are my favorite, talk about an out of body experience. If you can locate her cervix with your cock and get in between the cervix & back or front wall (especially after playing with her & using toys) *in my experience* it’s a guarantee way to cum

  7. I have a similar issue. I cannot cum from penetration. It’s been a slow and steady retraining of my muscles and mind. I started with what worked but added a dildo as I came near orgasm, I only used the dildo to hit the top. I also started using a very small clit vibrator. Orgasms were slightly ruined but I kept at it. Eventually the clit vibrator and dildo worked on their own and now I’m working on just the dildo. I now change positions to mimic sex. I also do keigels and strengthening my vagina has really made a difference

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