I’m not the best dirty talker, but the guy I’m seeing really likes it when I compliment him during sex. I need some ideas other than “you’re so big, that feels good, etc.” Things that really stroke his ego.
We don’t do much power-play, but I wouldn’t mind going that direction, so phrases about how he’s in control/ “ownership” stuff might be fun too.
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I like it when I am called a dirty pervert, you lick my pussy so good. Squeeze on his head with your thighs if he is eating you out. I enjoy plenty of things.
You’re going to need to ask him what he wants to hear – whether it’s to do with how he looks (men like this kind of comment too), how big he is, or what he does. Frame it as you wanting to know more about his kink so you can lean into it better for him.
To me dirty talk can be all about saying the same thing in different ways. My gf will say stuff like “that big dick feels so good inside me baby”, “keep fucking me with that big cock”, or “shoot that big load inside me”
I think a lot of it comes down to *tone* rather than the specific verbiage you use; does he like the innocent act? The slut? The “mommy”-tone? etc. (in this case, “mommy” just referring to being in charge)
Find the “voice” he likes most and then tailor it to your needs – you can take the same phrase (“please, please fill me up with your hot cum”, for example) and make it sound very different based on the voice you use. The “innocent” voice might shyly ask and sound plaintive, the slut will groan and moan it through raspy breaths, and the “mommy”-tone will be more dominant and “good boy” sounding. Any might be right up their alley and any of them might be a total miss.
As far as actual (generic) phrases, I’m fond of things like:
1. I’ve been thinking about your beautiful cock all day
2. Your cock can hit all these places I’ve never felt before
3. I am so wet for you, baby, I can’t help it
4. Just thinking about being in bed with you was making my pussy throb earlier today
5. I love it when you fuck me this deep, please own my pussy
You can also find out other kinks or sexual interests that he has and see if you can work those into your dirty talk.
Everyone’s going to like slightly different things, but men are fairly simple creatures and most men will desire comments in two broad categories- how well he’s fucking you/makes you cum and how big he is.
One tip would be that it’s the specific, not generic, comments that seem to have more impact. E.g. “You’re so big” is great but “it feels like you’re fucking me inside out” is going to be something he remembers for a long time.
The praise doesn’t have to be sexual. Compliment his personality, his way of doing things he seems to take pride in or you noticed.
I my case, the morev i feel like I’m the best you ever had, to more testosterone flows. Become a bunch more assertive.
Tell him as he slides in you, “I love it when Daddys home”
Tell him “take what’s yours” baby or Big Daddy “It’s all for you”
“Give it to me, I need it”
Tell him right before he cums, that you want it, you wanna taste him.
Beg for his cock and tell him how deep he feels inside you and that it fills you up so good while moaning from the pleasure
Men love knowing that they’re pleasing you
Most of the men I’ve been with enjoy a compliment here and there. Dirty talk can get weird if you say too much so keep it short and sweet. My favorite line is: “I’m so wet and it’s all your fault”.
Also, never hurts to check in with your partner once in a while (anything more than twice is overkill). “You like that?” My ex used to call me a “good girl”, and that was hot.
I’ve always had good results with giving guys compliments that aren’t exactly intense but more *unusual.* Like guys hear that their cock feels nice all the time, but have they ever been told their cock is *beautiful?* I guess not, at least according to guys I’ve been with. Go off the beaten path! It makes an impact.
Find out if he’s self-conscious about something (his eyes, hair, height, etc…) and compliment it in a way that sounds natural and unassuming