Before I start, some stuff was translated from another language so the meaning might not get across completely. I’ll try to keep it as accurate as possible though.
So I had a girlfriend for a month-ish, we both are part of a sort of club/org so we had meetings once or twice a month and met there. I thought we liked each other mutually and all. But about a month in, she sent me a text basically saying she was in an intimate unofficial relationship with multiple people at the same time before we were together and she regretted accepting my confession. (In Chinese, its called a **暧昧** relationship).
About 3-4 months later, she sends me a long text after the last club meet and now says she didn’t actually have an **暧昧 relationship.** Also said that after meeting me again after some time she realizes she still liked me. She expresses a lot of regret with her decision in the text, adding that I was the first boy she held hands with and hugged. And she wants to commit to a serious relationship now.
I don’t know what I should do. On one hand, I think it would be good if I just let her go, but if she does seriously want to fix it, should I give her a second chance?
TLDR; my ex sends me text 3-4 months after she broke up with me due to being in intimate relationships with other ppl and now claims she wasn’t and wants to be serious with me now. second chance?
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You guys arent even 20 yet, so yeah why not. Give it a try.
If it doesnt work out, oh well. May as well try it out though.
She broke up with you for a reason. It’s not meant to be.