I’m a 30F and pretty shy in the bedroom altogether. I’m always afraid to initiate sex, be on top and bjs are possible only if I’m tipsy.
Also, my ex didn’t enjoy those, so pretty much zero normal experience in the area.
I’d like to give head to the guy I’m dating, but again, very shy, very afraid of lack of “training” and… feels slutty?
I don’t want my partner to think that I’m selfish, just absolutely insecure. Any insights or pointers from both sides of bjs?