So recently i decided to let my friends know I have a gf. Some of my friends just ask normal questions such as where i met her, what school she goes to etc… I have this one friend that really wanted to know if I fked her. He seemed pretty persistent on it and he was even asking my other friend if he knew. Now initially my thought process was to keep everything sexual thing i did with my gf private out of respect for my gf (i assumed she wanted to keep it private) but when i ask my gf if she wanted me to keep these things private she said she doesn’t care lmao. So now the question is she i tell my friends about these kind of things if they ask?
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If she says she doesn’t care I don’t see why not. My girlfriend told me not to so I don’t. Communication is key
do you want to divulge that stuff?
beyond that, I would absolutely not tell that one friend in particular anything. that behavior sounds obsessive to a potentially harmful extent
Dude, no. It’s incredibly immature to share those very important and private moments that you’ve reserved with someone you actually love and care about. You want be a “bro, guy, one of the fellas” or do you want to be someone’s partner and rock. Because one of those takes a level of maturity and trust. Just my take though. I’m sure everyone has their own perspectives.
I dont kiss & tell
I dont share pics I recieve.
I dont share nitty-gritty, sexual details about dates or nights out.
When asked, I give the buddies a tale so outlandish their unable to maintain composure.
No. That’s some scumbag shit and your friends won’t actually respect you for it.
Nope.