Damn, I hooked up for the first time yesterday and lost my v card and it was absolutely life changing lol. She’s from out of town just visiting my city on spring break so I always knew if we did do anything it wouldn’t be serious and I’m perfectly fine with that. She even went ghost on me which would usually bother me but once again I knew not to get attached since she’s from out of town. Anyways, the thing is for the past day since it’s happened, it’s all I could think about. Images and flashbacks of what went down keep replaying in my head. And as much as I had fun and want to remember it, I haven’t been able to focus on anything else… any advice?
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You have a new addiction. It is going to last the rest of your life so, you might as well accept it.
Go on a date with someone else.
Losing your virginity is like flipping a switch in your head, and suddenly the anxiety and mystery pretty much goes away. I remember it vividly. Your first will be stuck in your head for a looonnng time.
The next stage (for me anyway) was having sex with someone who was WAY out of my league. The confidence boost was real…no more settling.
As others have said, this sounds super normal. It’ll fade a little over time, but everyone always remembers their first time. The good news for you is sounds like your first time was a great experience.
“Ohhhhh, *now* I see what all the fuss is about…”