Im 19 male and my 18F girlfriend is beginning to annoy me a lot and I don’t really know if i want to continue the relationship. We’ve been dating for about 6 months and its going fine but nothing is really happening and I feel like I lost all feeling.
At the end of the school year she’s going to America for a year and I don’t have the money to travel between my country and America so I’ve kind of excepted that the relationship is not forever but weirdly enough i am kind of looking forward to it. I feel really bad about it but I think being single is gonna feel better.
This is also my first relationship with a girl so when she approached me i just took my chance and didn’t really check if we were actually a match or not. I don’t really find her attractive anymore as well, i feel like the internet kind of ruined my expectations.
She also seems a lot more attached to me than I to her so I don’t know if i should brake up or wait till the end of the year to spare her the brake up.
Tl;Dr: I don’t know if i should brake up with my girlfriend or wait until the relationship runs its course by its own.
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You’ve listed like a million reasons to break up. This isn’t like a murder trial where you need a mountain of evidence to secure a conviction. You’re mentally out of it. Just bail.
And yeah. Break up with her. For two reasons:
1) She’s wasting her time investing in you emotionally when you’re checked out. She doesn’t deserve that. Yeah, she’s gonna be sad. But she won’t be a fool.
2) You need to learn how to properly end a relationship. It’s your first one. You should know how to properly end a relationship. And, spoiler alert, it isn’t “wait for them to leave on their own.”
Bite the bullet, do her a favor, and be the bad guy.
You don’t have to be cruel and list all the reasons above why you don’t like her anymore. Just pick a few choice things that are more about you than her and make it happen.
Reading everything you said, the relationship *has* run its course.
You’re both young, lol probably she’ll find someone new in America. So Maybe she’ll break up with you!