I was just thinking tonight like I usually do. I realized my old best friend and I have stuff in common more than me and my girlfriend. I’m not saying I will leave her because I have a lot of feelings and love for her. We argue a lot more than we used to and we are on and off with talking and she’s always busy with something. I don’t have feelings for my best friend but I realize a lot of things we have a common. I don’t want to be with her I want to be with my girlfriend it’s just that me and her have a lot in common like how we like things or not and she’s nicer to me than my girlfriend. I just don’t know how to feel because I want to be with my girlfriend but I realize me and her have a lot in common and she doesn’t always have stuff to do like her.
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I get what you’re saying, but this is a trap that a lot of people fall into.
Friends are different from romantic interests. The way somebody treats you will vary widely depending on whether you are dating them or friends with them. The person who was super easy going and supportive could be totally different when you are fucking each other. Its not as simple as assuming somebody will treat you better as a boyfriend.