So I’ve been seeing this dating this guy in college for a while. Everything went quickly and he asked me to be his girlfriend real quick.I also thought I liked him, but as the months past by, I realized I didn’t.
I tried to fall in love for him, but I just can’t. I think I’m emotionally unavailable. He’s super sweet to me though, but I don’t see a future with him.
He’s 1 year younger than me. And I already had my first love, but he hasn’t so he’s still kinda in the “i’m super in love phase” but i’m not. He lost his virginity to me and our sex is just normal basic sex, nothing spicy or anything. He now wants to try out different positions, new places, wants me to moan, talks about if he can be dominant etc. I don’t want this. I already did this with my first boyfriend for 7 years so it’s kinda hard to transition and do all these things with someone new. I don’t want my ex back, but I think the person i’m with now, isn’t the right person to give this all to.
I’m also not attracted to his body. He always wears hoodies and I always thought he was skinny. But when I first saw him naked, his body just looked different :/ I don’t like to body shame at all, but every time we have sex it feels like im having sex with a woman.
I think he might have a condition with his nipples.. he’s also not super cautious with what he eats.
And with the “I don’t see a future with him part” He wants to become a babysitter in the future and is basically gonna study for that. I don’t see myself marrying a babysitter. I don’t see anything long term with him. How do I explain this to him? in the most kind way possible
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Tell him that you’re sorry, but you realized that your relationship is no longer working for you and you want to break up.
The longer you stay with him, the worse it’ll be. Better to break the news as soon as possible to him. Do not mention anything about his body when you’re breaking up.