My gf has very sensitive nipples, to the point that I can make her cum in like 10 minutes from just sucking or playing with them.
And I don’t know if she thought it would be the same for me, or if she has a fetish for it, but today in bed she asked me if she could suck my nipples, I thought why not, so I let her do it.
We’ve been dating for almost 4 years now, having sex 3-4 a week, and I swear I’ve never seen her so motivated, so enthusiastic, about anything we’ve done before, as when she started licking and sucking my nipples. Her face was of pure bliss, like she was getting off from just doing it to me.
And even though I didn’t really feel any pleasure from that alone, the tingling sensation her tongue gave me felt nice. That, combined with the fact that she was giving me a handjob at the same time, again, with a level of motivation I haven’t seen before, made me cum in like 6-8 minutes.
She said (and showed me) how she was soaking wet down there, and asked me if I enjoyed it as well. I said I liked it and she started doing a mini celebration.
I said that because I came, but not specifically because of the nipple play. If she only tried that by itself I’ll probably get a half way erection, but that’s about it.
I wondering if I should mention something about that to her, because I think she got the wrong idea and thought I came from the nipple play. But at the same time, I’ve never seen her THIS happy about anything related to bed activities, so I don’t want to “burst her bubble” by saying I wasn’t really into it.
Thoughts?
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It seems like you though it felt nice. So ask yourself how much of this you want in your sex life. If you don’t want to do it again, be honest. If you’re okay with a little indicate you like it as foreplay but want to get off with in other ways (I’m assuming PIV)
Just be honest and talk to her. Sounds like it’s not an unpleasant experience. You probably just need to tell her its definitely a sometimes activity, but not an all the time activity. The way you phrase it in this post is very non-judgmental. Which is great. You could honestly just tell her a very similar variant to this.
It’s totally okay to like an activity because your partner is into it, even if it doesn’t provide that much stimulation to yourself. Sounds like its a fun activity for her to do to you. Also ask her if she wants the same. Sounds like she might really like it if you suck on her nipples, and copy her in a way. You might also really enjoy it if you’re on the giving end.
You still need to be honest with her. Little half truths like that can spiral if left, and then when she does eventually find out, she’ll be even more hurt that you lied.
It’s similar to women lying about having an orgasm, it’s all great until the guy eventually finds out and then feels like he’s doing wrong because he thought he was satisfying her all this time.
So tell her you enjoyed it, but it wouldn’t be enough to make you cum alone. That way, she knows you like the feeling, but won’t feel disheartened if she went for it and it didn’t make you cum.
For reference, I LOVE sucking my partners nipples, but I know they aren’t very sensitive as he’s very upfront about it. No bad feelings, and I still do it occasionally because i enjoy giving, even if it won’t get him all the way.
If it feels unpleasant or you just don’t find it a turn on you should let her know but also tell her that you appreciate her effort. If it doesn’t actually bother you and it makes her really happy, then let her do it.