Got drunk together one night, before that we were just normal friends. Though I have to say we knew each other for pretty long- 4 years. Had a freaking good conversation that night. Since I woke up earlier I laid on his bean bag and he invited me to his bed. We just cuddled hugged w/o sex. He even gave me a peck. Btw it’s the next morning so we are not drunk. We saw each other the next few days but acted normal. I could feel the tension though… I’m not sure if I’m overthinking this since I’m have never dated. We never spoke about this. What should I do ?
Also, we are asians so a lot more conservative
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Alcohol helps but doesn’t, it frees you both but also can overtake your better judgment. I am a non-dominant male. So I don’t really ever make a move or show interest unless I kind of have the signals that it’s okay. But honesty is my advice, I know it would be awkward as heck, but maybe trying to talk about it (in person / don’t do it over the phone or in text). If your interested sexually in him then maybe give a hint you are. Maybe drop they “it was so comfortable cuddling with you, but I would have been okay if we had done a bit more than just cuddle” line.
But you have to think on is your friendship is something you are willing to loss if he gets freaked out.