My bf and I have been having sex for just over a year and he initiates it every time we’ve ever done it. Lately, I feel like he’s purposely not initiating it because he wants me to do it. I’m like the most shy person ever when it comes to things like that. Any tips?

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  1. Some folks will ‘make the move’ – they will touch and kiss their partner in an intimate way and it goes from there.

    I personally like the: ‘Hey, do you want to fuck?’ method. Sometimes the most simple way is best.

  2. You’ve been doing the most intimate thing a couple can do together for over a year, you shouldn’t be shy about letting him know you want it.

    A hot kiss and a slow crotch rub, a whisper in his ear, rub your body against his and let him know you want, no, need him at that moment.

    We’re men, when it comes to sex we’re pretty simple creatures.

  3. While kissing use your hand to start rubbing him over his pants and slowly making your way into them.

  4. Hints don’t work. I found the best thing to say to my husband is “I want sex”. He gets the point and we have sex.

  5. Walk into the room with nothing on, big smile, and sweetly say, “oh no – my clothes fell off.”

  6. Start sexting him at a time when you are available and let him know where you are, then send him a photo which hints you are in lingerie or naked and tell him he needs to get to your location fast.

    Sit next to him and then flash some sexy lingerie you are wearing at him, or just start taking your clothes (or his) off slowly.

    If he‘s having a shower get in with him.

  7. My wife puts her hair in a top bun and says she needs a throat lozenge. I find that very erotic and it makes a good handle. You could also get some sexy undies and tease him.

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