32M 35F Broke up because of a bag

Hi, seemed like had high attraction for each other got into relationship in about a week.

we have been in relationship for 2 weeks total, she was talking about her firends birthday party

and that it was only 2 days apart from hers. I asked what she wanted for her birthday, and she said

she wanted a bag/purse. That didn’t feel right for me I said I can’t do that. She said she was dissapointed.

At that moment we got into a fight and she told me she was testing me and that I could have said it in a

nicer way. Followed by that she constantly said no gifts? no gifts? I said I would do it in the means of my

affordability. Anyway, on the day of her birthday she wanted to go to a pricy restaurant which I did, and

towards the evening we ended up going to Channel, Louis Vuiton, .. etc. She was taking a look and kept telling me

that i’m cute because i look scared by the fact that she might actually ask me to buy one. I went along with it

because I thought she was just playing and having fun. After speding 500 bucks for lunch and dinner by the end of her birthday

slept over at her house I had a wonderful time and she cooked me brunch the next day and seemed like she liked me for me

and understood things. My gurad for her was slowly coming down and felt touched. After the nice meal she wanted to go by the ocean view

and have some lunch, I agreed to take the subway and she told me that she would rather stay home if we were to go by subway.

I felt bad constantly, she lied down in bed like a dead fish binging on bunch of instagram feeds and it made me feel aweful.

I took an extra day off from work to be with her since it was her birthday but she seemed so down after telling her that I couldn’t get those gifts and that I don’t have a car.

I got sick and tired of her being so down and said that I would get her a bag and go out. As soon as I said that, she became

crazy happy, showered together and looked crazy excited. Anyway we went to those fancy places, took a look around and hungout.

Eventually told her hey lets grab something to eat and she got extremely angry. She told me she was gonna stay home but got up with full make-up

and got dressed becuase we were going for a purchase. She already told her friends that Im getting her a nice bag, called me a huge liar, and that

I played with her. I apologized several times and told her my intentions weren’t bad and that I was trying to make her feel better so we could go out

and have some fun. She started smoking cigarettes got crazy pissed off and said that the realtiship is over. I know that I messed up by

telling her things I can not do but is it that much of a fuckt to a point where she breaks up with me just like that?