Sooo.. i have been mindfucking myself for the last couple of days bc I happened to go soft with my gf butttt I think I found the reason why… I sometimes don’t enjoy when it’s just her performing the acts. Like idk I like to make her feel good and then she does the same to me but when she just gets me going and it’s all ab me I kinda get like not in the mood.. now this isn’t always but most the time if she isn’t feeling it then I’ll just be like whatever and stop.. idk am I weird does anyone else the same?
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I don’t feel exactly the same, but I get what you mean. I don’t like just being sat there whilst my partner does all the work on me. I prefer being the one doing something. Like I appreciate being taken care of, but I get more joy from giving my partner pleasure than just sat there receiving it.
Doesn’t sound weird, lots of people get off on pleasuring their partners. Just talk to your girlfriend about it.
I always make the girl cum first. I like knowing she had the big O before I do.
Why do you not enjoy receiving? Is it to do with guilt over having your partner doing something while you can’t reciprocate? Do you feel she’s only doing it to please you, and that it’s a chore for her? Or are you uncomfortable receiving anything in general life – like do you hate being the centre of attention? Whatever the reason is will dictate how to approach overcoming this.
You’re a guy that likes to go down first! It’s pretty common.