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Hi all!
So my gf has the ability to squirt, she has a handful of times but mostly when were drinking and screwing around in bed super relaxed. Shes told me in the past that she usually holds it back during sex because shes self conscious. The whole concept is hard for my small man brain to grasp lol.
The one time she told me she holds it back I told her I loved it and that she doesnt have to.
Can it really be held back like that or is she just saying that?
This was like 3 months ago she told me this, and shes done it maybe a total of a dozen times in the 9 months we have been together, and I know shes the self conscious type so I dont want to talk about it with her too much and make her feel like shes on the spotlight and get ‘stage fright’ if she actually wants to try and let it fly.
But at the same time I dont want her to feel like she has to hold herself back from feeling good due to embarrassment, self consciousness, or dealing with a mess
(assuming it feels way better for you ladies during/after squirting, please correct me if im wrong)
To be clear, I’m not saying I wanna force her to do it, obviously if she doesnt want to she doesnt have to but idk if that causes a type of ‘blue balls’ effect on women, i want to just make sure shes as sexually satisfied as me. She claims she is but would it feel even better for her if she did it??
Idk how any of this stuff works, first gf ive had thats a squirter so im just lost lol.
And side note, i dont care if its pee, or something else or a mixture. whatever it is; im into it! Go ahead and judge, im ownin it lol
Thank you for any info!
3 comments
It can be held back but in my experiences will reach a point where it can’t sometimes. Squirting in most cases happens for women who want to squirt. Meaning that if they feel that sensation and want to let it out they will. Some women do not know what it is and assume they have to pee, thus they hold it in.
Also from my experiences squirting happens more often from piv than from clit rubbing/using my fingers. Find which positions work for you. Hitting the gspot seems to do the trick. What I do is go fast but only halfway in so I’m repeatedly hitting the gspot on the way in and out. Current partner squirts almost every time we fuck at least once.
Hi, fellow squirter here lol. We can hold it back yes, and it doesn’t necessarily cause discomfort or “blue balls”. It definitely feels better to just relax and let it go, but I don’t always like it if I know it’s going to cause a mess (if we are on the bed for example and don’t have a towel nearby, I don’t want to sleep in a wet bed lol). It also depends on her comfort level with you. Just try and talk with her more and make sure she knows you want her to and it turns you on. It may take her a while 💜
I can only squirt from anal, basically it feels like pressure very similar to the feeling of having to pee so you can hold it which if she was drinking the times she did squirt she probably was buzzed enough to just let it go. It does feel a little disconcerting as a women because we don’t want to “pee”, she had to just feel comfortable enough with you to just let it go. Maybe having towels down on the bed so she won’t be worried about a possible mess will help her relax