24M.
I have never dated before but I am willing to try it right now.
Recently I went and cold approached 2 girls at university. I was able to get their instagrams.
The problem is that Im already done with university (graduated last year), so it feels weird going there to just approach girls there. Should I stop doing this?
I don’t know any other place to approach women. That’s why I decided to go to my old university. I don’t drink, so I don’t go to bars. My hobbies are running and skateboarding. I also go to the gym but not many women my age go there.
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do you have any friends?
Go on the apps. I found my boyfriend on tinder. 🤷🏻♀️ they get a bad rap sometimes but you can form genuine connections if that’s what you are looking for. At a minimum, you can gain more dating experience. If you are vibing with someone after messaging a bit, ask them to coffee, out to dinner, on a hike, to a museum, etc.
I’m also 24, I moved to a larger city and find high foot traffic areas like the streets downtown or malls great because you’ll run into women who aren’t in a rush and open to chatting.
I’m not a big drinker, but going out once a week to a singles bar for an hour or two ain’t hurting no one, and there’s plenty of people there who aren’t drinking.