I don’t know whether I should be with my boyfriend anymore. For background we have been together for 2+ years. I stopped having sex with him as much a year ago and for a long time I didn’t really understand why. I’m not sure if I still do. I think it could be because he doesn’t really show me affection outside of sex. He doesn’t really kiss me unless it’s a hello or goodbye. He doesn’t hug me. We cuddle but that’s the only soft affection I really get out of him. He says he told me before we started dating that he isn’t really affectionate. I have brought this up many times but he swears he kisses me and I just don’t realize it. It makes me feel like I’m crazy but I know he does not because I’ve gotten to the point where I would write down when he would. When he tries to make out with me my mind automatically rejects it because I know it’s just because he wants to be intimate. So I don’t want to do it. When we do have sex I just can’t stop thinking about how I can’t wait for it to be over. We don’t really have any major problems besides that but he isn’t meeting my emotional needs while I am not meeting his physical. He says he doesn’t feel like he can meet my emotional needs without me meeting his physical. We love each other but I’m not sure if we are in love anymore. He is my best friend and is the best person I know but I don’t know if we should continue. Even if he started to do the things I’ve asked I feel as though I might be too far gone at this point. I think about if we should be together so much and have been for a long time. I’ve been going back and forth in therapy for a year now. Some days I am happy and thankful for him and other days I’m unhappy with us. I may just be overthinking everything.

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