I’m 21 second year at uni, and I’m gay. I wouldn’t say I have many friends in general, but every year I managed to make a decently close girl friend. I’m generally fine with girls although depending on their personality I find most don’t take much interest in me even platonically.
With guys though I find it much harder. I‘m quite nerdy and don’t give the generic bro vibe they do. Those guys are always fine with me, but none of them actually have any involvement with me and we just stay acquaintances. Some of them give me a fist bump a lot within the first hour of meeting them like when I join a poker table at the society, but with continued interest after that it just seems a bit patronising. There are other more open/visibly gay guys that don’t seem to struggle like this, so I don’t think it’s that.
There really isn’t anyone I can talk to or even arrange to go out with, except that one girl, and I don’t know what I should do to change that.