In 2021, I used to have friends from all spectrums from the popular to the unpopular. I had a lot of people that liked me. All that changed in 2022 when I was slowly dragged out, kept out of the loop, not invited to hangouts anymore & eventually, got told to “fuck off”. It seems like they want me to go back to being an unpopular loner once again. It has gotten to the point of me breaking down twice in a week because of this. It feels like I am losing friends faster than last year. Is there any idea on how to get myself out of this situation?
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I’m no expert, take my advice with a pinch of salt. What matter the most is, which do you prefer? Do you prefer getting out there and talking to people, or do you prefer being quiet and not talking to much people.
A situation like this has happened to someone in my school class. He was friends with everyone, then in one year everybody hated him. Now I’m not trying to make assumptions or anything for you, But this dude completely changed everything about him, got in everyone’s face, thought he was untouchable, then started hanging out with people the no-one liked (I mean no-one.)
So, Are you still acting the same as before, same humour etc. Or have you changed because you don’t think it suits you.
Did you get in people’s face or think you were untouchable?
Is there people you started becoming friendly with that are, to put it straight, just assholes?
They werent youre real friends part of growing up