It’s been 4 months since I last msg him. I was upset when he referred me to his cousin( gussed he got bored of me, we’ve seen each other 3 times a week for about 4weeks) and said he ain’t got no time. Then I cut him off since I know I was catching feelings for this guy.
We did have a good time and I wanna reconnect with him again as I want something casual at the moment but I have no balls to reconnect with him.
Would it be positive to try or has anyone ever reconnected with their causal partners? Thanks!
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Me as a 33 year old dude, I would not want to be hooking up with a 20 year old. That’s just creepy behavior on his part. You sure you want to go that route? Have you tried other options that don’t have him in it
I think it sounds like it’d lead to feeling hurt again. Get yourself off and see if it still seems like a good idea during the post nut clarity…. If you really want to reach out, a little liquid courage can get you over the initial hurdle.
Clearly you’re still invested if you’re asking this. It will never be casual.
Also a 30M shouldn’t have any business with a woman your age.