Sorry if this is a dumb question. 25. F. Never been in a relationship before. No romantic experience.
Ive now been on 3 dates with a guy I really like. He was my first kiss. He tells me he likes me so much. He texts me every morning and always asks about my day. When we are together we talk for hours and enjoy each others company alot! Our interests are the same. He makes me feel safe and comfortable. Hes very respectful. Hes attracted to me and I am to him.
Id really like to ask him to be my boyfriend because I think we are compatible. However, we have only been courting each other for a month…does that make a difference? I don’t want to come off as a desperate weirdo rushing into something. I feel like im missing steps? Should I give it more time? For any guys reading this, would you be scared off by a girl asking you to be official after a month?
I really like him and don’t want to ruin this. Thanks for any advice in advance!
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Hello – Penis having individual here. Honestly, 3 dates is a bit soon, maybe wait another week or two, but don’t be surprised if he asks you first. What does a label mean to you anyways? I mean if you’re spending time together and having fun why is it important that you call him your boyfriend?
Don’t ask him if he wants to be your boyfriend, tell him you want to be his girlfriend. Do so before you banged him if you haven’t already.
Dating is different for everyone. I would suggest waiting a couple more dates before asking him because 3 dates might be too fast.
When it feels right its the right time. If he’s that in to you he’s probably feeling the same
The correct answer is whenever it feels right.