Uninstalled Instagram
Uninstalled Snapchat
Uninstalled Facebook
Because I (M23) was tired of seeing happy couples everywhere. They put the same effort as me, they met people like I did, they went out on dates like I had, they talked all the time like I used to. Finally they had someone, but I couldn’t. And the only woman (F23) I thought was going to be the end of this singleness rejected the idea of us being together because of long distance is now dating someone, when she was the one who said she needs to focus on her career first before getting involved with anyone, that she needs to find her freedom and become independent before she starts dating again.
I was the best she ever could have. I gave her the hope that there are still good men out there who care about women and know how to treat them right. After meeting me she learnt to prioritise herself and build boundaries, she got rid of her body image issues and felt more comfortable in her skin, and she was the one who used to text me throughout the year, hoping to see me again and spend the time and do all of the things that were left pending.
But, she chose somebody else.
Is this loop ever going to end?
1 comment
As a guy, focus on yourself for now. Work on career and saving money, and keep yourself fit.
Women have dating on easy mode in their 20’s, but men have it on nightmare difficulty setting. This flips in your 30’s. Women find dating progressively more difficult starting at age 30, while men who have a good career and look good have dating on easy mode.
So again, just focus on yourself, make yourself more attractive, and things will only get better for you. Women are attracted to men who have money/status, self confidence, masculinity, and are physically fit. Just work on those things and don’t worry about women.