What was the moment that you realized being single was better for you?

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1. When I was basically miserable in a relationship with someone who claimed to love me

2. When my boyfriend told me he’d rather play elden ring then take me to the hospital

3. When I was a toddler and my mom cautioned me to not count on a man for things.

4. 2020- My ex-husband and I were already having issues in our marriage, but covid lockdown proved to be the last nail in the coffin.

5. witnessing my parents relationship

6. When I was dumped because of an alcoholic lady or lady with 5 kids. These were the last straws and I just bluntly block and unfriend, who even tries something.

7. When my x husband cheated on me while I was pregnant, and one day came home with the brilliant idea, that we could call our unborn child Sophia. This was the name of his affair. He didn’t know I knew. And that’s how he became my x husband and broke my heart and trust in a billion peace’s. Been single for 5-6 years, and I have never been in a better place for my self. Not gonna ruin that.

8. When I realised I’m much happier single. I have no unnecessary stress.

9. The stress of relationship outweighs the benefits

10. Oh boy where do i start. I could not fully commit in the first place due to mismatch between his actions and words (mind you these are not small things, but drug use, bad hygene and other women). All good in words, never any progress in actions. Then i was gaslit to think i am imagining things… well i was not. I had hard evidence, but he took me for a fool. I distanced myself which caused the mf to go after one of his good friend’s ex girl (after a few days of them breaking up).
    Previous bf was abusive.
    So yep, im much better single and in therapy.