I trust too easily and I’m too friendly.
I told the wrong people some information about me (not dangerous just selfish). I just say too much to people. Even the person I’m with is saying he doesn’t think a person this friendly should be in a relationship. I will never cheat on him and I’m only looking for friends, but I understand where he’s coming from.
I grew up being told I was worth nothing and believing that, so when people are friendly to me, I think they’re genuine. There’s also something wrong with people nowadays but that’s besides the point. What are some tips as to not be so trusting?
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Learn to set your limits and be up front about what you will and won’t do for others. Be sure that you are not always putting the demands of others above your own. Learn to say no when necessary.
And I know this is not always easy, but it is important
Friendly is very different from trusting. I’m friendly to everyone I meet but I don’t trust anyone I don’t know. Just guard what you say until you know what kind of person they are.