Hi everyone.. I (f20) am flying to meet my man (m26) for the first time in a few weeks and I want to have a lot of sex but I’m almost twice his size… Starting to get nervous!
I’m a fairly pretty Hispanic, have long hair, and weigh about 220lbs. I don’t think he’ll find me unattractive but I am worried about by belly getting in the way of having a good time.
Does anyone have tips on how I can be on top comfortably??
Or ideas on how to make sex more fun?
Ex: using food such as honey or Nutella, wearing lingerie, trying different positions etc.
ty anything helps!
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Not one problem…
Not one problem… You’re twice his size, so he can move around well and feel like he is on a soft cloud. Skinner women do not provide this same effect. Please, do not worry; if he has an athletic build, he will be proud to show off giving it and pleasuring a more prominent woman (take it from someone who knows) 
If your larger body has given you larger tits, use those as a part of the fun. Titty fucks, titty sucking, let him cum on them, he won’t be left wanting.
I’m a bigger girl with a skinny man as a boyfriend. Confidence is key for us larger women! Walk in the bedroom knowing you’re the best thing he’s seen in years. Move with confidence and flow instead of being hesitant. I’m very confident with my man during sex and I notice it wasn’t much of an issue after I overcame that
I use to weight 224lbs( 160 now) when I got with my partner who was about 153 and 5’10 with a very muscular build. Not once did I feel out of place or worried about my body.
The right partner will make you feel so comfortable and happy.
A big key is to have confidence. Don’t worry about what you will look like. Just lose yourself in the moment and enjoy him. He obviously has no issues with how you look, so I wouldn’t worry for a second.
First and foremost, communication is key. Have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your concerns and what you both enjoy in bed. This will not only help you both feel more comfortable, but also ensure that you both have a good time.
Lol..girl relax that man gone fold you like an auntie Anne’s soft baked pretzel…and do not…I repeat… DO NOT be afraid to get on top and ride him like the horse you took down to old town road…of he die he dies…now buckle up butter cup, you got this ok!!
Lingerie ALWAYS gives me more confidence. It’s so fun to play dress up and the look on his face…
If he likes bigger girls he’s gonna love being squished by you. You got this.
As long as he already knows and is still making displays of interest you have nothing to worry about.
If you have Catfished him, then yes. He most likely won’t like that but I don’t genuinely think this is the case here.
Unless you’re 220 pounds is packed inside a 2 foot body it’s not gonna be an issue. Even then unless he is the size of a tooth pick it won’t cause many problems. Get on top and ride and grind till you’ve had enough. I bet he will be in heaven
I don’t think weight will make a difference. My wife would ride me all the time when heavily pregnant and I couldn’t tell weight difference.