Men of reddit, What situation you’ve been in where a woman started a fight and you got blamed for you being a Man?

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1. My Ex hit me and then didn’t accept that I told her to stop. Because iam a dude and supposed to just take it and it’s okay to hit dudes or something.

2. Never.

   But I am a big caveman looking motherfucker.

   I have warned a girl that raised her hand at me that I will slap her back. (In my youth). She was like “you’d hit a woman?” And I stuck my chin out and saidd let’s see.

   She never did, and we all just kinda went back to the party.

   Not sure if I’d hit her back in that moment, but it’s not like a 5’5 110lb woman could hurt a big dude anyway.

3. Every single one with my ex wife. I never hit her, but she was pretty abusive in every way but it was somehow always my fault.

4. Girl in high school insulted my mom while she was in the hospital for ovary cancer. I called her a hoe, she slapped me, and I knocked her out consequently

   Tbh, I should’ve just ignored her

5. I’m 6’4” and I’ve been told by my aunts that I can never hit a woman, not because it’s wrong to hit a woman but because I need to protect myself as a man from women looking to victimize themselves at my expense based on how the law would see the situation. Every single time a woman has started a fight with me I’ve always recorded the incident and asked others to call the police, and every single time I’m seen as the perpetrator initially before I have a chance to reveal footage and explain the situation. Protecting yourself by being stoic, logical, and reasonable in response to a person that is over emotional with disregard to your health and wellbeing is extremely important. Be a king, not a fool.

6. All the time back as a little kid. And then again several times as a kid.

   The schools, of course, conveniently ignored that girls hit puberty before boys.