Me (21F) and my boyfriend (24M)

Question at the end!!!

Little backstory first: We have been together for almost 3 years. The first few months were the wonderful honeymoon stage. Almost a year in, we moved in together (not by choice at the time tbh). Things were still going okay. About 4 months of living together, that’s when things started to go downhill a little. He kept quitting his jobs, and showing no effort, leaving me with the bills. He wouldn’t help around the house, and just kept bringing in junk just because it was free. It was annoying. Eventually, we had to move out because I just could not afford the bills by myself with the job I had at the time. We were living at his grandparents house. After about 3 months of living there, I had found out he was asking other girls online for \*pictures\*. I moved out around 2am and he followed me all over town..

Long story short, I moved back in with my parents. I finally feel comfortable with MY finances and talked about moving out. I told him he could move with, but I have high standards due to the previous experiences with him. All of a sudden, things went downhill. I mean, they weren’t perfect, but still. He even brings me drinks and snacks while I’m at work, which I appreciate.

I haven’t moved out yet, so he just stays with me on the weekends. BUT here is the issue. He’s constantly accusing me of having another boyfriend. Whenever I’m not in the mood for bedroom activities, he either tells me he’s going to get it elsewhere, or that I’m getting it elsewhere (which I am not). He’s always accusing me of having attitude or trying to start arguments whenever I try communicating things with him. I just feel like I can never win.

My question is, is it just me? Is it in my head? Am I going crazy? These issues have now been an everyday thing whenever we’re together, and it’s getting to the point where I enjoy being away from each other…