So, we met online and hit it off. We’ve seen each other 7x in a total of 14 days with a few sleepovers. We just had sex this weekend for the first time and it was great. He has expressed that he wants to keep talking to me and seeing each other once I’m back and I do too.
Anyways, I’m really into him and think it is reciprocated. So, reddit fam, do you have any suggestions on how to navigate the next couple of weeks?
Ps – I’m taking a month long trip with my brothers.
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Snapchat but don’t send your face or full nude. Can’t completely trust him yet. He’ll be ready for you when you get back 😉
If it is meant to work out…. It will
What? I’m sorry, I’m confused as to what you’re trying to navigate?
Is it that you want both of your to be monogamous while you’re on this trip and you don’t know how to bring that up?
Is it the opposite, that you don’t want to be monogamous while on this trip and you don’t know how to bring that up?
Is it that you have a couple of weeks until you leave and you’re unsure how to act until then?
We need more clarification.
What are you navigating exactly?
Go on vacation, tell him you will message or call when you’re back.
What is this job where you get a month’s vacation so I can apply?
It probably won’t work but stay in contact so it’s not your fault entirely for lack of trying. Travel has ruined 80% of my failed relationships/date potentials. It’s too much effort to commit to someone who’s not a priority and it’s hard to deal when someone who IS a priority is gone for a long time.
What does a cow have to do with anything?
I mean, you’re going on vacation, not leaving the planet so i’d say continue texting, give him a call like once a week. check in, send him a nice flirty selfie (not every day). you’ve gotta make sure you stay relevant and he doesn’t lose interest.
Just remember to msg him and send him updates?
Text him a few times. Maybe once a week. I dunno. Don’t worry about it, a month is not that long if you’re into eachother
I would resume dating after the vacation. Maybe send an update text halfway through, but otherwise focus on enjoying your trip.