I’m a guy in my 30’s that has never had sex before.
All of my life I wanted to sleep with someone cute and wake up next to them. For whatever reason, I’m completely invisible to women.
I try to put myself out there as much as possible. I’d like to think I’m a fun and approachable guy. I’ve got no problem talking to random women around town or online. I try to flirt and compliment them. They will be laughing a lot and seem to enjoy my company that is until I ask them out. Every time I ask them out I get turned down. They tell me it’s too busy (already seeing someone) or that we are just friends (while fooling around with someone else), which hurts.
How can I initiate casual sex? What am I supposed to do?
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Workout and watch some YouTube videos on the topic. Worst case scenario you can hire a professional which could boost your confidence and help get the ball rolling since you’ve been there already.
Girls will give themselves to men that *are buffed and it’s just desire on their part, *are material they want to mate and nest with, *have money and therefore will be able to look after their offspring, or…*are just genuinely nice guys who have beautiful souls and beautiful eyes/smiles. Or men with motorcycles: yep that works every single time. Spec wit me. Love 💗
Just pay for it lol. Only the top few percentile of men are having casual sex regularly.