I had sex for the first time and I was terrible at it. I couldnt establish any rhythm for more than 5 seconds. I tried doggy and missionary. Then I felt like my hamstrings were burning.
My dick kept falling out and I had trouble finding my way in. It’s quite small as well maybe around 3.5″
Want to know how to establish rhythm (how to stroke, what muscles to use) and how not to have my small dick fall out every 10 seconds.
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Angles are your friend my love: use them. Thrusting does not need to mean leaving and re-entering: rock from backwards pressure to forwards pressure.
You will change the pressure at points within a person (anally or vaginally) and that is what feels great about being penetrated.
Position wise I enjoy something that looks like classical scissoring. You get intomacy and a lot of control, and a lot of opportunity to use your hands on their clitorus (or as penis play if penetrating someone with one). As well as being perfectly balanced for rocking inside them at a speed you both choose. Bonus points it’s really easy and no one gets tired too soon.
Avoid doggy of anything with a lot of ass in the way, and of course make sure you both enjoy actions before penetration.
Good luck and have great sex op!
Try cowgirl position. Let her be the director well she sits on you. You don’t have to do anywhere near as much and she will likely be very satisfied.
It might not be easy early on, but slow down. It’s not a sprint, it’s not a competition. Just take it easy, focus on making your movements steady, yet deliberate and meaningful. And most of all, communicate with your partner! Good luck, you got this