Disclaimer. I am a virgin, about to finish college and start dating.
I’ve never had sex before, but I’ve done a lot of research on how to be good at sex. I learned it’s about communication, and not just pleasing yourself.
So my question is, was anyone good at sex the first time they tried it? I hear so many horror stories about how your first time is going to be terrible. Is every first time experience going to suck?
I wonder how much bad sex is due to lack of maturity. I wonder if a girl would be able to tell I have no experience, if I don’t say anything.
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I’d say focus on having an enjoyable time for both of you. Communication is good, it’s okay to share that it is your first time. There are some things you won’t know until you do it. Also, a lot of sex articles out there can have misinformation. Don’t put a lot of pressure on yourself to be good at it the first time and have open communication before and during sex.
Have her fuck herself first and then try to do it how she does it pretty confidently then gauge her reactions and do as she says. that’s about it.
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otherwise just enjoy it.