What do you do when she doesn’t seem interested in talking much anymore after coming across real needy?

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1. You move on to the next girl and try not to be needy next time

2. Back away and if that doesn’t work, move on.

3. You mean *she* was real needy then pulled away?

   I can think of two scenarios. 1) she’s not interested. I’d say cut bait & walk away. Or 2) she’s playing games, trying to get you to pursue her. I’m too old for that sh*t so I’d still cut bait & walk away.

   I’ve also lived long enough to know that when it comes to understanding women I’m usually pretty wrong, so take my words with a grain of salt.

4. Seems like the best recourse is to just walk away. No point in wasting your time on somebody who doesn’t value yours.

5. Find another fish

6. Sometimes you’re nervous because you like them or inexperienced and it gets taken the wrong way. Dating can be hard and takes those hard experiences to learn but it’s catch 22 because those hard experiences can jade us too.

7. She probably lost respect for you. Needy men dry up vaginas like nothing else. Best to move on.

8. You leave her alone.

9. Move on, and hopefully learn from your mistakes

10. Did you do it on purpose? That’s what you’d do to drive away a woman when everything else has failed and you don’t want to break her heart.

11. Count it as a lesson learned, and move on. She was never that into you, you were just her emotional tampon. Now that you’ve served your purpose, you can be safely discarded.

12. Ya you messed up op. All you can do is learn from that mistake and move on.

13. Take yourself out and enjoy the company of quality people.