Not asking for an actual number but at what point would you say that the number of exes makes you feel like a future ex rather than a partner?

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  1. I’ve never actually asked anyone how many exes someone had. Didn’t seem to matter.

  2. If there is any real issue with exes, it is so that there may be the one which was too many.

  3. When you have to keep a spreadsheet.
    Fuck never going to date in San Antonio again.

  4. Depends on age. If you take a look at her dating history and notice she never had a real relationship or the common 1-2year short time limmerance things, shes a future ex.

    Its a sign a eoman never deceloped the skill to hop from “in love” to “love” mindset. What makes her uninteresting for long term.

  5. I’m 18. If a woman around my age has more than 2 exes it would definitely raise a red flag for me

  6. I consider their age and intentions. I’m 19 (going on 20) if a girl my age I’m interested in says she’s had like 2 relationships by now, I’d understand and I’d be fine with that; that’s pretty normal. I’d tolerate 3 but anymore than that sounds a bit suspect.

    Sleeping around, same goes, once or twice at a young age is fine but if she’s out every night sleeping with every guy she saw that will be a problem in my eyes.

  7. I like to think of relationships as learning experiences but if you’re going through like 1-2 every 2 months or so there might be something wrong with you.

    Also I don’t think you can have too many exes, as long as you can find the one that hits the mark for you it shouldn’t matter

  8. Id say if the number is over 2/3 relationship per year after 18. If you’re cycling through relationships that quick then maybe it’s something having to do with you.

  9. Unless it’s you that dies – or you die together – you’re ALWAYS someone’s future ex. That’s how you should approach dating: Is this person good enough to be my future ex?

  10. “How many exes is too many?”

    Hmmmm…..probably-

    “Not asking for an actual number”

    So defeats the purpose of the post then.

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